For anyone interested, here's a copy of the map of Wesleyan Cemetery in Cincinnati, Ohio. Driving directions are as if you coming north on I-75 from Kentucky (or Greater Cincinnati Int'l Airport).
These are hard to come by, you're lucky if you find someone at the office (the cemetery is now run by the City of Cincinnati). Last time we were there, they only had one copy of the map and no working copier in the office. They were gracious and trusting enough to let us take it to FedEx-Kinkos so we could make copies (we donated a stack of copies to them).
Hope this helps someone out!