For my old Civil War ancestor's marker, I ordered the VA upright granite marker and had it delivered to the local funeral home. When it got there, got a couple or 3 young male cousins with a pick-up truck, a bag of quick cement from Home Depot, and shovel then off we went to the old family cemetery. It was our family cemetery so we make the rules. They did a great job.
" A Southern Family Tree is not a tree but a beautiful Wisteria Vine with many branches going everywhere, twisting and turning, and a lost root!"